Friday, February 12, 2010

be happy?

Although these words are good to listen as our lovers and friends tell us, we really truthfully wonder what they mean. Can you make someone this feeling by just telling them? In the scriptures not to much is said to make us happy but then again we learn to be blessed of God. My mother used to say that she would do anything in her power to make me feel happy up untill the time she could not even take care of her own needs. I in earndst then told her that what would make her feel this way would also make me. I think that because of this even after her death in actually situation, concentratrating on what she told me I am able to make people around me think cheerier thoughts and even feel those who have lost contact with me don't feel my transparent mood. With this in mind I always remember to keep in mind the reactions and opinions of people around me being that they are a direct outcome of my environment. We can't control the present so how can you think you might feel happier from unlikely standpoint but still be in connection with the surrounding outcome.
When we talk to "you" the most likely source this is to wish them well but we need to look at real meaning. That could be the error because we cannot change the past. I think a word in sound jugdement is the wisest. I refer to myself as uncritical as long as I don't drop a sofa on my foot.
You're feelings matter. So then how do each other's bad notions come in to play. Remember they should not.